Sunday, October 18, 2009

Scary

Had a big scare today and not of the Halloween variety even though it did happen at the Pumpkin Patch/Fall Harvest Festival and a (relatively local) farm. Let me start by saying everyone is physically fine, but Max and I will have some emotional scars for awhile. Even with 2 sets of helping hands in my cousin and her 13 year old daughter, we lost Max. He was there one second and gone the next. My cousin had the presence of mind to find a worker and they handled the whole situation very well. T, my cousin, says that the one worker got another worker who radioed the front and back and got the word out fast. My recollection is a bit hazy as I was loosing the battle of remaining calm. We were in a play area waiting for my cousin to get a drink and I bent down to get the camera and he was gone. He says he didn't see us and thought we had left him so he went back to where we had just been listening to the music. Then, he got scared and went and told someone his name and that he couldn't find his mom. They in turn got a worker and were headed back with him to we were as they got the word. We were both in tears and shared lots of hugs and kisses for awhile. He was lost probably at least 5 minutes, but no more than 10. If felt like an entire lifetime. There are few times in my life I have been that shaken and I know that was the scariest time in his life.

4 comments:

Lori said...

Hugs to you both. I can still remember not being able to find my dad when I was six. I feel for both of you.

DRMOMOFTWO said...

I feel for you! My son is a "runner." He runs off at every minute without any regard of where I am. It's been a big challenge to go anywhere with him. Only once did I lose him...in a mall...also for about ten minutes which seemed like a very long time. There would have been MANY other times...but I always know, now, to take a friend along when we go to public places where he might run off and get lost. He's definitely getting better, but it's still SCARY!

Laura in L.A. said...

OMG, Deb, I am so sorry. What a scare! How proud I am of Max, though, that he knew to tell an adult that he couldn't see his mom. Smart boy! Hugs to you both.

Love, Laura

sharon said...

Wow, what a nightmare! So glad Max was responsible enough to tell someone his name though. Way to go Max. Now, I guess I better talk to Lillian about this, so she could handle it the same way.